August is Kids Eat Right Month and the perfect time to ensure all kids have the skills to eat healthfully for life. Many parents worry about their children's nutrition and this concern can be put aside when following the Division of Responsibility in Feeding.
The Division of Responsibility in Feeding
Parents’ feeding jobs:
- Choose and prepare the food.
- Provide regular meals and snacks.
- Make eating times pleasant - do not discuss discipline or sensitive topics at the table.
- Show children by example how to behave at family mealtime - such as not spitting food out.
- Be considerate of children’s lack of food experience without catering to likes and dislikes.
- Not let children have food or beverages (except for water) between meal and snack times.
- Let children grow up to get bodies that are right for them.
Children’s eating jobs:
- Children will eat.
- They will eat the amount they need.
- They will learn to eat the food their parents eat.
- They will grow predictably.
- They will learn to behave well at mealtime.
When taking a step back to think about it, it's simple. Parents are responsible for providing food and children are responsible to eating. If a child chooses not to eat at a meal, that's okay because they will have another meal in a few hours. We want to limit snacking to specific times like meals because when snacking too much, a child will not be hungry for a nutrient dense meal. While this may be difficult at first, stick with it! Your child will thank you as a healthy adult.
The Division of Responsibility in Feeding was developed by a registered dietitian who specializes in children's nutrition and recognizes children have natural ability with eating. Just think to when a baby breastfeeds, the baby will breastfeed for as long as they need before pushing away; babies may breastfeed for different durations during different days and times. Remarkably, children know how to eat as much as they need.
Overall, step-by-step, throughout their growing-up years, children will build on their natural ability and become competent eaters as adults. So, how do parents do this? Parents let them learn and grow with eating when they follow the Division of Responsibility in Feeding.
Children also grow in the way that is right for them. When looking at a child's growth, we use growth charts. As long as a child is trending on a curve, their curve, it will be okay! Each child has a slightly different curve and that's ok. If a child is between the 15th and 85th percentiles, do not make an issue of their weight. Furthermore, we rarely want a child to lose weight. When a child has excess weight, we want them to maintain as they continue to grow thus bringing them to a healthy weight for their height. Instead of making an issue about their weight, insure they have access to nutritious foods and lead by example in eating healthfully and being physically active.
Lastly, children learn to eat the food their parents eat. Just as mentioned above, parents must lead by example. We cannot expect children to be willing to eat foods if their parents won't. It is okay to not like some foods, but is important to like other nutritious foods to create healthy plates. If your child does not like a certain food, continue to serve it. Over times our tastes change and we learn to like a variety of foods.
This week, be sure to stop in and purchase lean ground turkey. Lean ground turkey is a healthy protein and the start to many great family meals that your children are sure to love. Happy, healthy eating!
Following the Division of Responsibility in Feeding now will equip your children with the life skill to eat nutritiously. The Ellyn Satter Institute is a great resource for more information about raising healthy children.
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Stephanie is an award-winning registered dietitian who believes in empowering every individual to make nutritious food choices to support a healthy lifestyle. She believes in the power of food as medicine and loves sharing about nutrition with others.